Dr. John Gottman notes that 69% of all conflict for couples is related to “perpetual” problems – meaning we argue about the same things 69% of the time!
Through Couples Counselling we hope that you can get out of the rut that sometimes gets you stuck and find new ways of relating.
Using Transactional Analysis to look at how you relate, you both get a tool which can help you quit parenting each other in negative ways and supporting the other to be in the role of a child.
Often couples wait too long from when a relational problem starts before seeking therapy. We encourage you to change your conflicts into opportunities for intimacy early rather than entrenching yourselves in patterns that lead to disengagement.
If you’re willing to do the work, there is hope.